About Coaching
About Coaching
In three words: presence, permission, & partnership.
Working together in a coaching relationship with Rob means
working together intentionally along three lines of effort.
Asking Iterative,
Transformational Questions
The questions we ask shape the lives we live. In Rob's work, he engages iterative questions that invite increasing clarity, courage, and expansion — questions that disrupt autopilot living and awaken the deeper intelligence already within you.
This kind of inquiry isn’t about fixing; it’s about revealing. As your awareness expands, space opens up — and in that space, you access breath, possibility, and freedom.
Practicing Grounded,
Proven Techniques
Transformation isn’t just a mindset — it’s a method. Together, when coaching with Rob, he uses time-honored, embodied practices that help identify and dissolve internal blocks, fear-based patterns, and limiting beliefs.
The effect is that you'll learn how to meet each moment with quiet strength and grounded confidence — no longer driven by fear or uncertainty, but rooted in clarity and calm presence.
Aligning With Your
Actual (vs. Idealized) Values
When you know what truly matters — not just intellectually and idealistically, but viscerally, "deep down in your bones" — you walk through life with conviction and purpose. Coaching with Rob helps clarify the actual values that form the bedrock of your identity, then integrate them into your daily decisions and relationships.
This alignment becomes your compass: stabilizing, empowering, and deeply personal. From this place, you’ll lead your life — and others — with authenticity and integrity.
Curated, Cohort, or Convergence
Healing doesn’t follow a single path.
Neither should coaching.
Whether you’re just beginning to unravel the system you came from, or you’re already deep into rebuilding something new — there’s a way to walk with me that fits your season, your soul, and your situation.
I offer three distinct pathways for coaching — each one grounded in The Ziran Life Values Course and designed to support you wherever you are.
A curated journey
with structure and soul.
For those seeking clarity, healing, and self-trust — but needing the freedom to move at their own pace — the curated path offers a compass and a guided experience through The Ziran Life Values course, with all the inner depth and transformational weight of private coaching... at a fraction of the cost.
This path is for you if:
You’re on a tight budget but ready for deep, inner excavation and transformation
You want a clearly outlined, thoughtful structure without weekly meetings
You’re motivated to reflect, journal, and explore on your own
You can create and/or follow a schedule for learning and hold yourself accountable.
You’ll receive lifetime access to the full 31-lesson Ziran Life Values journey (on Substack's platform) carefully designed to help you deconstruct inherited systems, reconnect with your embodied wisdom, and rebuild from the inside out.
A 90-day group experience with rhythm, reflection, and resonance.
The cohort is a live community-based version of The Ziran Life Values meta journey.
We meet once a week for three months — and in that shared space, transformation deepens.
Each weekly gathering includes:
A guided Ziran meditation led by Rob
A brief teaching (“Ziran Talk”) highlighting key course concepts
Time for personal reflection and journaling
Group conversation and insight sharing
Weekly accountability through a dedicated messaging space
Direct messaging access to Coach Rob for personal support
This path is for you if:
You thrive in group settings but still want personal connection
You want structure, rhythm, and accountability
You’re ready to move through transformation in community
One-on-one coaching for focused,
soul-deep transformation.
Convergence is private coaching — a space where your story, questions, and inner shifts can be fully seen and supported. Whether virtual or in-person, these sessions are spacious, intuitive, and personalized to meet the exact terrain you're walking through.
Each session is rooted in deep listening, real-time feedback, and presence. Together, we’ll explore what’s emerging in your life — grief, clarity, transition, desire — and work toward integration with care, honesty, and intention.
This path is for you if:
You’re navigating grief, trauma, burnout, spiritual disorientation, or existential shift
You’ve already left a system (religious, military, familial, corporate, etc.) and are rebuilding from the ground up
You want tailored support, real-time feedback, and a coach who sees you beneath the roles and expectations
You’re seeking a sacred space to slow down, go deep, and do the inner work that generic coaching can’t reach
This is where your most honest self gets witnessed — and where real transformation begins.
Each of these options is grounded in the same core Ziran philosophy:
You already carry the wisdom.
I’m just here to help you access it, trust it, and live from it.
If you’re not sure which path to choose, that’s okay.
Let’s talk.
Click the button below to schedule a free 30-minute consult.
No pressure. No pitch. Just presence — and a conversation about where you are and what’s next.